昨晚给张玉琼发信息到快0100。

想到2007.11.11晚上新东方，丝绸大厦的9楼，这几年唯一的一次。

这是最好的结局啦~听着光亮的朋友首日封，沉沉睡去。还真是做了一个不坏的梦~骑着自行车，在那种青花瓷里才有的凉爽的阴天下，沿着西藏的天路停停走走，走走停停。

 

今天还是看了Into the Wild.很受触动。MadC，很向你推荐这部电影。

To call each thing by its right name.

-HY

这学期丢了不计其数的贵重物品，丢了不计其数的GPA,还有不计其数的记忆。

 

先祭奠一下我的小Philips吧。我对不起你。两年以来的所有照片，那么多珍贵的记录，YQ妈妈帮她梳头，第一个暑假第一次在火车站送她，大树、王言和我在庐山的徒步，科大天使路同一视角的春夏秋冬，彼岸花花开彼岸，QT的生日，理化大楼两个元旦通宵迎来的新年的日出，爸爸妈妈爷爷奶奶，兔子出国前在庐州太太打工，二教如画的某一个清晨，1201里的日出……还有400多个号码。那么斑驳磕碰的外壳，估计那个偷了你的人拿到了就后悔了；也许他还有一线妄想想打爆你的话费，结果你还拒绝让他发信息打电话，总是提示他“仅限用公用电话簿”并请输入密码。他肯定不知道密码，然后他肯定就把你抛弃了……还有不到一个月我就陪伴你两年了。可是还是没有等到这一天。

 

银行卡？一卡通？信用卡？四个月内更新了三次……公交IC卡？Rado表？自行车？羽毛球卡？身份证？学生证？手机卡？IP卡？借书卡？全部在今年，商量好了似的齐刷刷永远地离开了……

 

没准我真的有神经衰弱，要么就是健忘。千万别是老年痴呆的前兆……

 

还好，Find好多朋友，还有能谈心的朋友，Find好多好玩的东西，Find很多去处。

-HY

To make friends all around the campus is one thing, but meeting a buddy with whom you can share deep thoughts and long-desereted stories is another. It's really kinda surrealistic to have found one during my campus life.

 

Grapeot once compared making friends to the bonding of electrons in between atoms. Friends come and goe. Those who remain by the side begin bonding with you. Then they are your buddies. But inner circle cannot bear too many, as the word 'close' weighs so much, so much that one cannot be competent enough to take up that lot at one time. And Grapeot said sometimes it's a pity that we meet someone deserves true friendship in later life while the bonding is already saturated. Well, partially true.

 

A buddy is, to some extend, another way you being yourself. You lay your utmost trust, talk though with them about your deep secret which is the superlative form of 'share', refer to them while confronted with nonpluses, pick up their little lovely merits and polish yourself. When chances come, you think of him or her. You assert yourself, 'I shall inform them with this at once', 'they can't miss it', 'we may do it together'. However, a buddy is somehow, bilateral. Like the bonding of electrons, while atom A wanna give, atom B must be willing to accept, thereby a bond forms. It's embarrassing to think of the situation that you are laying trust upon someone who never cares or even feels bored with the misdirected trust. So, to your buddy, you are also supposed to be a buddy.

 

Buddies also need to understand each other through some mutual experiences and character resonances. Thus we say, time tests. Therefore, my excitement about finding a good friend at college is somewhat uncontrollable. 19 years is so short a period of time while long enough to contain so many decisive events in one's personal life. But though one may miss quite a lot about the other, let's say, again, time tests.

 

Not knowing why, words just felt invited themselves and flooded out of me. I talked about my own family, mom and grandma, my old friends and used-to-be friends, and the girls, and myself. From the beginning to the end, stuffs that I was, have been or am feeling troubled with.

 

Buddies are also, personally speaking, independent and equal. It doesn't mean that living in a same dorm is the sufficient or necessary condition for being a close friend. No. Definitely not. Being buddies, we have our own way of dealing with things, coping with life. We influence, but do not interfere. We suggest, but never surppress.

 

I'm feeling blessed that I only used two of my electons. And the coming up use of the third one is of course as exciting as the previous two. BigTree and Grapeot, hopefully I'm going to have one more admirable friend, to share ideas, sorrowness, and felicities. Isn't it something worth celibrating, huh? :-D

-HY

这么晚了，一路飘忽飘忽的骑车回来，洗澡之前还是决定写一点。

今晚反响挺好的，谢谢大家的关注，这就是我们的树之。

首先一定要感谢的，楠哥，马哥，当然还有海昕哥和国平（呵呵当初要不是你拉俺，俺还不是树之的人呢）。当然，还有所有付出艰辛努力的“同僚”们~尤其花白胡子和耳聪、目明的那个台词儿叫难背啊。啊当然还有黎佳，呵呵呵呵，神经病太搞了。嗯，今天我拿小方巾的时候出了点小篓子，对不起了大家，还好没坏事儿。

最后恭喜TT、赵天意、还有周宇。作为新人我不知道这么说合不合适，但是总之新树之后继有人了呵呵~开心。

个人来说，大树、madcpf还有张潘旭，十分感谢你们的捧场；大家作业学习那么忙，你们抽空也前来，我真的很感动。

飘啊飘飘啊飘，我要睡了……做梦时再预祝下周咱民族乐团专场顺利吧~

-HY